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Do you say "Yes", when what you want to say is
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Do you know how to communicate with your partner in order to
have a lasting relationship? |
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Does abundance feel completely out of reach while you see it
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All of the above questions relate to your quest of finding
your purpose. This workshop has been specially designed to give you tools to: recognise your
purpose, become a better person, accept the new gifts of life, take
responsibility for what is happening to you, take action to co-create your
passion.
There is no problem you cannot solve! Peace and healing can be
yours if you own these principles.
Experience the magic of yourself and discover your true magnificence.
Course dates - please refer to our diary of events
and courses by clicking here Cost: R800
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"Change and growth take place when a person has risked
himself and dares to become involved with experimenting with his own life."
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The key to moving forward and embracing
the present is forgiveness!
How do we truly forgive ourselves and move on?
The first step is an awareness of the areas in which we hold our judgments, or fears, our
angers and all the old patterns (like blame, shame, resentment, etc.) that "keep us
stuck."
This requires a commitment to self knowledge
and a willingness to forgive. We must take responsibility for our actions and negative
thinking. The secrets we hold inside become a burden that haunts us and blocks our
self-forgiveness.
As we practice forgiveness, our anger,
judgments and fear, become less charged. Practising forgiveness is a wonderful process,
for it release you to be truly free to live in your compassionate heart.
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The force of forgiveness
- is the space
between forgiving yourself and others. By forgiving, you can tap and harness that force
and create miracles in your life.
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The greatest
miracle, is life itself. You
are the miracle, and you can create anything you want, which is another great miracle.
There are no barriers, no limits to what you can have. The only limit is what you
can picture for yourself, ask for, believe and deserve you can have.
Miracles come from love, are created by love,
and are magnetised to you through love. When you want to give or receive love and
miracles, all you need is the intention to do so.
You will be shown how your belief systems, and
lack of deservingness, limits you. Through various processes you will realise how you
perceive the world around you. You will awaken to your unique abilities, opening up to
your worthiness and deservingness, so that you can begin turning your dreams into
realities.
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About
the Facilitator - Bev Moss,
through her spiritual journey has also faced many of
life’s challenges - particularly with the illness and
dying process of Pam. She has equipped herself with life
skill tools to better herself. She founded the Bella
Vita Holistic Centre, and through her determination, her
chutzpah and compassion has established a place of light
- a space of love, where people can experience and be
nourished and healed by this Force of Love and
Forgiveness. Through her wonderful teachings, her
priceless and invaluable knowledge is always shared.
Pam Summers had
been living with cancer for the past 18 years. In her
quest for healing she journeyed to death's dorstep on
numerous occasions. Her exceptional will to live and her
passion for life rode the tide of time. Pam's incredible
love of humanity, her wisdom and hour, gave us all the
opportunity to learn how to re-connect with who we
really are. In spite of her struggle, she embraced her
path and faced each day with hope and enjoyed laughter
and joy.
Bev and Pam shared (and Bev continues to share) a
passion for teaching people on how to empower themselves
and to live a fulfilled life. Their philosophy is to
support a person’s magnificence. The workshop was
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The first step in forgiving
the self is being willing to let go of shame. It is being willing to move beyond
limitation and fear, and accepting that, just maybe, God does love and approve of you as a
child of the Light. It means being willing to accept your divinity, and being willing to
exercise compassion towards yourself. Once you have stated your willingness to do these
things and have set your intention to release all pain, guilt and shame from your being -
then your soul, supported by the higher forces of Light in the Universe can go to work
assisting you to release all your pain to the Light.
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"Probably one of the most
important events in my whole life was the Self-Mastery Workshop. I could write a
book on my experience of those two days alone. Suffice to say, I got rid of a
lot of old baggage and I came out there knowing that I was worthwhile and
special (a major breakthrough for me). The love and respect of my fellow
students touched me deeply. I now have a healthy self-esteem which is a total
joy to experience." Patricia - Psychologist
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"I have never experienced such an amazing course before.
I have been able to forgive numerous real and perceived ghosts, fears and
self-judgments and put them to rest. I was awakened as to how much I had let
others’ fears limit my thinking and subsequently my growth. The two days have
opened my eyes and heart into viewing my life and others differently. I have a
membership to the roller-coaster of life and I am not aiming to take a
back-seat, or get off track ever again. Words seem so inadequate for the gift
you have both given to me - new eyes" Lorna -
Director
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"I am part to blame for the fact that my present
relationship does not work, I was always blaming my partner for our bad
relationship. Now I see how I contribute to it. This makes a huge difference,
because we can at least change ourselves if not our partners, and once doing
that, the whole dynamic changes. I now have the tools to understand my behaviour
and reactions to life and can begin to change them." Anon
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"Your workshop is the singular most important thing I
have ever done. My life before the workshop was lived being the proverbial
clown, a smile on the face and a tear in the heart. This is all gone. I am
healed. My wish for all my fellow human beings is to experience this workshop
first hand and receive the tools so necessary to deal with their lives. Our
world is a better place for your efforts" Rika
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The key to moving forward and embracing the present is ...
Forgiveness! - By Bev Moss
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The vast majority of people today have a misconception of what the word "forgive-ness" means! People say: "I've got nothing to forgive", or "I don't want to forgive them for that!", or "I will forgive, but never forget". Some think that forgiveness is a part of some religious order.
Lets face it - we can't undo what has been done - it is history. But - and it's a big but - when you don't forgive, you keep yourself in a prison. Plain and simple. Or, we can be
pro-active and powerful, in the moment, by beginning a process of becoming detached from the pain of the incident(s).
When we are in a state of 'unforgiveness' - resentment, blame, and guilt - we look older, we can't get up in the morning, and we allow life-limiting illnesses into our lives. Physical pain ensues. Our physical body cannot survive. We are killing ourselves.
Guilt is a very powerful and deadening emotion. Guilt in and of itself can close down the energy systems of your body, and thereby lessen
(and in extreme cases cut off) - the flow of Divine Energy and Love to the body entirely.
Your emotional pain has got nothing to do with them - its yours! If I am hurt, I am hurting myself because nobody is in charge of me - I AM. What has happened can't be undone just because I wished it were so!
"I will be perceived as weak... they will see my
vulnerability... what will they say... I feel so
unworthy... I feel I am not good enough... I feel
unloved... I don't deserve this... I will never forgive you for hurting me..."
Every time that you think any of the above thoughts and any other negative, destructive, belittling self
thoughts - you are setting yourself up to be hurt again and again and again. So why do you keep doing the same thing?
If you keep doing the same thing, you are going to keep getting the same results, so if you don't like the results, change what you are doing.
Start off by becoming aware of your thoughts. You are the sum total of the thoughts that you think. Every time you think a negative thought like: "Life is a struggle", this thought sends a message to every single cell in your body. Your mind is within every single cell of your body. Your cells are being told that "Life is a struggle", so that is the message that they resonate with. This is also the thought that gets sent out into the Universe, and like attracts like. Therefore, this is what you create in your reality and your life becomes a struggle on all levels - financial struggle, relationship struggle, emotional struggle, etc.
Therefore, when you find it impossible to forgive another, you remain energetically connected to that person. Thus you are allowing the pain, the abuse and the trauma, to remain within you. Forgiveness is not something you can, or cannot do. It is simply a matter of choosing to change your thoughts, beliefs and ideas about a given situation, or person, in your life.
The word Forgiveness simply means
"to let go or release".
At which moment are you going to let go of those judgemental, negative, ugly thoughts that have become so much
a part of your daily existence? The sad part about it, is that these thoughts have become so much a part of who you believe you are, that you do not even notice them anymore.
Another emotion we love to hold onto is ANGER. You would rather stay angry at the person than forgive them. Remember that when you forgive someone else, you are actually releasing yourself from them. Suppressed anger is more lethal than a loaded gun. Over a period of time, this kind of suppressed anger will just create dis-ease in the body.
The choice is yours: You can either stay where you are in life - 'stuck' in the victim, the martyr, the 'not good enough', the 'I don't deserve' - or you can take your power back right now
- and start taking responsibility for your thoughts and actions. When you change, your world changes for the better. Look within, as that is where you will find the answers, not without. Get in touch with the
God within, and let the God within shine outwards.
Are you willing to start the journey of Forgiveness and take control of your thoughts and emotions with all the ups and downs? Are you willing to allow yourself to become the magnificent human being that you truly are? How can light possibly filter through to you, when you surround yourself with dark thoughts all the time?
In essence, by not forgiving another, or by not allowing their energy to leave you, you are allowing the pain and the abuse to continue. It is as simple as that. So, the only decision that you have to make regarding forgiveness is: Am I willing to let go of the pain and abuse, or will I allow this person or situation to persecute me for the rest of this life?
You are human - so are they. When you let go you won't be using up your time and energy trying to convince yourself of how right you are - it won't be important any more - HAPPINESS WILL BE.
Remember - There is no way to happiness - happiness IS THE WAY.
The key to moving forward and embracing the present is forgiveness!
How do we truly forgive ourselves and move on? The first step is an awareness of the areas in which you have judgments, fears, angers and old patterns (like blame, shame, resentment, etc) that keep you stuck. This requires a commitment to self-knowledge. The secrets you hold inside become a burden that haunts you and blocks your happiness.
The second step is a willingness to take responsibility for your actions, feelings, and thinking, good and bad, pleasurable and painful.
The third step is to make a choice: What do I want to let go of, and what do I want more of? This involves taking your power back from those who hurt you in the past. Express the pain and anger safely, and let it finally go. Move forward.
As you practise forgiveness, your anger, judgments and fears become less charged. Practising forgiveness is a wonderful process, for it releases you to be truly free to live in your compassionate heart.
You can then hold the vision of what you want and free yourself up to be the Creative Genius that YOU ARE!
I cannot express the importance of self-forgiveness enough, for self-forgiveness and self-acceptance are the keys to surviving the upheavals of a turbulent world. Forgiveness of the self, and acceptance of the self, have a direct positive influence upon the functioning of the immune system.
Forgiveness is one of the universal qualities of grace that helps to unblock and allows joy and light to flow. The act of self-forgiveness and the process that you go through
- on a physical, emotional and mental level - will teach you much about the workings of the human psyche. Therefore, it will enable you to embrace others with compassion and true forgiveness.
True forgiveness can only come from a guiltless heart, from a soul that has truly forgiven itself and is in the full light of self-acceptance. So, what is forgiveness? Forgiveness is choosing to change a thought, belief and an emotion - with respect to other people and situations. As everything in the Universe is energy, forgiveness is also a process of transforming energy. Forgiveness is a choice, as is not forgiving!
Forgiveness is the most important aspect of your spiritual growth, and it is the forgiveness of the self that hands you the key to the light of your soul.
Become joyous. Have fun, and start loving who you are and what you do. Live in your truth.
All your thoughts and emotions are your choice. Your choice is your ultimate freedom.
Through self-forgiveness, self-love becomes growth, and with growth you attain wholeness of being.
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